The Kind of Wisdom You Don’t Learn in Tech
Recently, I had the opportunity to lead a cybersecurity and AI session for seniors.
Going into it, I kept telling myself, just keep it simple. Keep it practical. Make it useful.
I had my plan.
We'd talk about scams, staying safe online, and what AI actually is in everyday terms.
But honestly, the session didn't really go the way I expected. In a good way.
Before I could even get too far into the material, people started sharing right from the beginning.
Stories about scams they had experienced. Or almost experienced.
What happened. How it felt in the moment. What made them pause. How they responded.
And what really stayed with me was how open they were about it.
No hesitation. No embarrassment. Just honest conversations about things that are very real and affect people every day.
At some point, it stopped feeling like a "session" and started feeling more like a conversation.
They were asking really thoughtful questions. Not just "what is this," but:
how does this actually work
how do I know what to trust
what should I be paying attention to
Some of them were already using AI in their own ways.
Some talked about how they double check things now, how they've learned to pause before clicking, how they're more aware.
It wasn't passive at all. They were fully engaged.
And I found myself listening more than I expected to.
Because the way they were thinking about things wasn't technical. It was practical. It was based on experience.
They were talking about trust.
About instinct.
About recognizing when something just doesn't feel right.
And it made me pause.
Because in cybersecurity and AI, we spend so much time focusing on tools, frameworks, and systems.
But a lot of what we're actually dealing with comes down to human behavior.
And the people in that room brought something you don't get from frameworks.
They've seen patterns over time.
They've learned how to read situations.
They know when something feels off, even if they can't explain it in technical terms.
That kind of judgment is built over years.
You can't really teach that.
It also made me think differently about the work I'm doing in AI and governance based on how they are using it.
Listening to their stories and questions, I kept thinking about how important it is to build systems that account for how people actually experience technology.
Not just how we design it.
But how it's interpreted.
Where confusion happens.
Where trust breaks down.
Those are things you don't fully understand from frameworks alone.
You understand them by listening to people.
Another thing that stood out to me was how comfortable they were asking questions.
There was no overthinking.
No worrying about how it might sound.
Just a genuine desire to understand.
And honestly, that creates a better learning environment than most professional settings.
I went in thinking about how to teach cybersecurity and AI in a simpler way. I left thinking about how much we can learn when we actually listen.
If you work in tech, in healthcare IT, in cybersecurity, in AI, or honestly any field, find a reason to sit with someone who has been around longer than you.
Not just to educate them, but to listen.
Ask them about trust.
Ask them about deception.
Ask them how they knew when something was wrong before they could name it.
Ask them what they wish the people building these systems understood.
You will walk away changed. I promise you that.
Maliha
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